One month today!
One month ago today Lily was born. A whole month ago! Time is going by so fast this time around. Before we know it both girls will be asking to borrow the car. So what’s been happening for the month? Sleeping, feeding, sleeping etc. Little Lily likes to be cuddled all the time… which is perfectly fine, but also makes everything else quite hard to do, and Amelia has been needing tonnes of extra attention which is pretty understandable but exhausting all round. Big-P has been working really hard, battling off illness (we’ve all had another round of wintry colds) and also getting up at night to change nappies and be a hero. I think I have written one email in the entire month and luckily I had a whole bunch of Kiddley articles written and ready to publish before June 18th otherwise that would have been seriously neglected too.
I had an email from someone this morning telling me how sad it was that Loobylu had been abandoned in favour of Kiddley — which is just not true (and kind of hurtful). There’s only so many minutes in a day (or in a month, really) and most of them are filled with important things like mothering. I am sorry if anyone else has been feeling mad thinking that I have been busy updating kiddley and leaving loobylu for dust. It just isn’t so. If I could have written a month’s worth of Loobylu articles in early June too and date stamped them to automatically publish here I would have. Actually I probably could have. They all would have read “fed the baby every three hours again today. Amelia watched 7 hours of television and I managed to get a shower in before 12 noon. A good day (relatively)!”.
I have been doing a lot of contemplating of how excellent it would be if I could do tasks by telekinesis – because while I sat feeding instead of flipping mindlessly through magazines I could get everything else done that is piling up around us. But life is beginning to settle down and a gentle routine is coming back again, and I am starting to feel human again after the operation – so perhaps I can stop and breath a little. Lily is lovely. Amelia is also lovely and being a loving big sister. We are doing quite well I think. Although life is full to the seams, it is somehow much easier this time. I don’t feel like I have let a bomb off in my brain – we did all the adapting last time. There are absolutely no regrets! I haven’t once contemplated spontaneously running away down the street and jumping on a bus to Chadstone (and beyond, the world) when I go out to put nappies in the trash. I remember feeling that way many, many times in 2002 and I was expecting to again. But no! Such a relief!
Responses
18th July 2006 at 12:35 pm
I was so happy and surprised to see Loobylu light up on my bloglines! That you had time to blog, wow. Don’t even think twice about it~ I’m sure you have plenty of understanding readers. Lily sounds so lovely; can’t wait to see photos and hear stories about the sisters!
18th July 2006 at 12:40 pm
So great to hear that everything is going well!! I don’t know why people feel justified in sending judgemental emails like that. You are doing a fantastic job all round and I didn’t even expect an update this soon!!!
18th July 2006 at 12:41 pm
At the risk of sounding like yet another middleaged (???!) woman with teenagers (who are FANTASTIC) let me just say that these are such precious months that I’m amazed you are honouring us with ANY posts. Just keep loving those babies and forget silly emailers.
18th July 2006 at 12:44 pm
Welcome back! I’m glad to hear your little ones are doing well! And you too!!!
18th July 2006 at 12:44 pm
Oh dear no! I know how totally involved in all things baby you must be, this is the first month, and you have TWO to manage now. I was secretly glad you were absorbed in mommy-things and able to take a break from Loobylu. I assumed either you or Mr. Loobylu had stocked up on Kiddley posts. No worries, just give your sweet girls a hug from me.
18th July 2006 at 12:52 pm
i was amazed that Kiddley or any of the blogs had anything in them at all, as what else can you do especially in that first month other than making sure you’re not still wearing the same tracksuit pants as you had on continuously since yesterday!
18th July 2006 at 12:52 pm
OH, happy month anniversary! I am so glad that family is adjusting well . . . as well as can be expected, huh?! I can’t wait to see more pictures of Lily!
And Hello . . . any idiot would know that you haven’t given up your blog . . . you just had a baby!!! It is okay to take a break!! (Even though we are all eager for pictures when you are ready! ) 
18th July 2006 at 12:52 pm
What an incredible month of love and adaptation for you, Big P, AJ and Lil. Thanks for letting us know how you’re doing and thank you for focusing your time on the most important aspect of your life at the moment – your family. Know that your internet buddies are all thinking of you. Happy anniversary of becomming a foursome.
18th July 2006 at 12:56 pm
Hooray ~ glad to have you back! And I’m glad you’ve taken the time to enjoy your daughter’s first month; she’ll never be this little again.
Having two certainly changes things, doesn’t it? Enjoy!
18th July 2006 at 1:00 pm
I am SO very happy for you and your family! I’ve missed your blogs, however have realized that this is such a memorably magical time in your lives! Thanks for getting back to your “audience” and, please, feel none of the “guilties” regarding your communications…youare definitely awesome for all you do!!
18th July 2006 at 1:08 pm
Each day since your last post, I’ve been checking for news. But each time I found nothing, I thought awwwwwwwwww, she’s having a baby moon! And that’s wonderful! Nevermind those insensitive types! I’m sure most of us know very well where you’re at, and are happy to lurk about, waiting for your return! Can’t wait to see more pics of your sweetie.
18th July 2006 at 1:19 pm
great to hear you’re all well and things are going smooth! happy first month!
18th July 2006 at 1:20 pm
Pft to those who say you have abandoned the sites. It is to be expected, you have more important priorities. Ignore the idiots. Enjoy your baby and as a mother of 4 I know how quickly it will disappear.
18th July 2006 at 1:21 pm
So glad your family is well (I was a wee bit worried) but totally understand the craziness that is a new baby. Enjoy (and ignore the blog that we know you are well and healthy)
18th July 2006 at 1:24 pm
Hi Claire
Don’t let those turkeys get you down! Sounds like all is fine and dandy to me, continue to enjoy!
18th July 2006 at 1:50 pm
Hi Claire,
It’s lovely to have you back! I have been periodically checking in, but was unsurprised that you hadn’t posted. Don’t worry about what other people say – you have got a lot going on in your life right now! And the family is your first priority.
Lily is just gorgeous!
18th July 2006 at 1:58 pm
wow, are people really actually mad at you?
don’t let em get to you. don’t even think twice about it.
family first!
i’ll keep reading here and at kiddley!
18th July 2006 at 2:10 pm
Congratulations and happy month-day!
I echo the thoughts of previous commenters. Phooey on anyone who judges what you choose to (or have time to) work on.
ps ~ Also happy things seem easier this time around. The second’s not nearly so scary. Just watch out if Amelia tries to feed the baby Cheerios (like Sophie did the twins…) 
18th July 2006 at 2:26 pm
I’ve been a regular at Looby Lu since 2001/02 and I have really enjoyed watching your skills evolve to match your life. While Kiddley is not something that interests me at this point because I don’t have children of my own, I think what you’re doing is wonderful and I am sure the site (or others like it) will be a great resource one day.
In the meantime, I think your blog is as fabulous as ever. I love reading your upbeat, very human tales of your little growing family – they always make me grin!
Congratulations on little Lily, Claire – if I could be half the mum you are one day, I think I’d be doing a damn fine job!
18th July 2006 at 2:29 pm
How absolutely ridiculous that someone would actually be angry at you for not updating Loobylu!
You’re a mother for goodness sake! There are many more important things matters at hand for you. More power to you. We can certainly wait patiently for an update!
18th July 2006 at 2:41 pm
So glad to hear from you! Of course we knew you were busy mothering, and getting used to doing it for two! So glad that things are settling down.
18th July 2006 at 2:44 pm
Oh you are so lucky to have 2 sweet little girls to have and hold whenever you want. I love babies and yes they do take up a lot of time. I am sure that most of your readers understand how hectic life is with your kids and you trying to settle into a new routine too. We will still be here when you are ready to start blogging again! Have a wonderful day.
18th July 2006 at 3:06 pm
hi claire… i’m new to loobylu and realised that you must be super busy with a baby. i can’t believe someone would even contemplate sending such a silly email.
i hope you get to enjoy motherhood act II …without having to worry about blogging. yourself and the family should be your primary concern.
hope the melbourne winter hasn’t been too bad either!
18th July 2006 at 3:10 pm
Its nice to see a mama be busy with her family rather than fulfilling the needs of blurkers (my term for blog lurkers) who should be either getting busy with their own lives or spending time with their own family (in whichever form) I found having the second was easier and harder. We are into day 2 of torrential rain in Syd, and both mine are into about hour 4 of telly. No one bloody sleeps anymore.
*sigh*
18th July 2006 at 3:46 pm
happy monthday, pretty baby and congratulations for that wonder of the nature !
18th July 2006 at 4:05 pm
awww! congrats!!
A family friend had a baby boy today!!!!!!
that’s funny hey! 
awwww all these little adorable munchkins to look at…. awwww
18th July 2006 at 4:39 pm
I think it is a miracle that you made it to the computer in this time. You don’t owe the readers anything. Most of your readers are mums and will totally understand. Don’t let one little comment blow your day! And don’t feel pressured into returning too quickly either..take your time and have lots of naps when you can.
18th July 2006 at 4:54 pm
Ahhh, I want to apologise for who ever that was that wrote that silly email.
Again, congratulations and most of us know exactly what it must be like for you at home. Not that I have the experience but your kids and family come first and we are just lucky readers/supporters of your blog. Glad to see a little something from you today. I hope the cold weather isn’t being too mean for you.
Keep enjoying it and when you have time, I can’t wait to see more photos.
18th July 2006 at 5:02 pm
glad to see you’re doing well
i echo what has been said about updating your blogs. you know what your priorities are, you know what you’re doing and i don’t think you should change for anybody.
18th July 2006 at 6:03 pm
Eh… did that person not have any idea about babies. I don’t know how you managed to get anywhere near the computer with a new bub and a little girl wanting attention.
I was excited to see you had update though!!
18th July 2006 at 7:11 pm
I guess whoever emailed hasn’t had a baby themselves! Glad everything’s going well for you and the family. It’s nice to hear that it is easier second time around… No rush for your next post!
18th July 2006 at 7:20 pm
Claire, feel perfectly justified in sleeping instead of blogging any chance you get!!!!! Don’t worry about we readers, we are thankful for anything you can manage over the next few months, on loobylu OR kiddley. You have bazillions of readers who completely understand. Sounds like you are coping really well. I remember when I had 2 under 2, I thought it such an achievement to wash the dishes and have a shower sometime before dinner!
18th July 2006 at 7:52 pm
Good to hear everything is settling down well and that you are all enjoying the arrival of little Lily. Does the naysayer have no clue about babies?
18th July 2006 at 7:54 pm
I’m just amazed, that you have time to write anything at all! I never would have, I’m sure of that! Just keep enjoying the little one and never mind nasty emails
Elisabeth
18th July 2006 at 8:31 pm
You have a shower before noon!! You are going WELL! I am glad that Amelia is enjoying her new role. It is so wonderful to see siblings bond with each other!
18th July 2006 at 8:54 pm
what a silly emailer… we all knew you were busy!
I enjoyed looking at lily’s cute little squashy face everytime I checked for news. good to hear you are all well
18th July 2006 at 9:00 pm
A month allready!!! I cant believe it.. I guess I have been too busy with MY two, to notice how much time has flown. Its great that you have been able to take the time to be with your babies, and when you are ready, whenever that is, we will be here. Glad to hear all is well!!
18th July 2006 at 9:06 pm
Claire you’re amazing and I feel so guilty for emailing you to see if everything was Ok – I hope that didn’t contribute to you feeling pressured. I’m so intrigued by that bizarre sense of ownership of you and other favourite bloggers because you give us so much pleasure and are so honest and intimate and we feel like we’re close to you when in reality we’re not. I know I got panicky because that first month with a baby can be so fraught with things going wrong and I’m embarrassed that manifested in asking if everything was OK simply because there wasn’t a post on Looby Lu. I am sad that somebody could only express that with criticism, and criticism they felt the need to send you. I hope the person that emailed you can see now how intrusive and hurtful that type of comment is and can maybe have a think about the fact that we all owe you something for how much you give us of yourself on a regular basis, with very little reward, rather than the other way round. I keep seeing this with blogs and the anger and sense of entitlement especially directed towards female bloggers which is simply not OK. It would be so great if people could manage their own issues and anxieties without needing to exert them on someone else. I was definitely selfishly worried and concerned – my new niece was born a couple of days before and things didn’t go so well initially so I was being paranoid. She’s perfectly fine now but I would like to apologise for not keeping my concerns to myself. lots of love to your whole family and thank you to everyone posting here being so grown up and non self absorbed, you’re an amazing bunch.
18th July 2006 at 9:24 pm
I’m kind of flummoxed by the idea that someone would e-mail you – YOU – a criticism. I am glad all are well. A month. My does time fly.
18th July 2006 at 10:11 pm
Oh Claire I am so relieved that you are relieved about this second time round thing… OMG the first time round was hell on earth for me and I would so love for our little Lily to have a sister or brother but the idea of going through all those escape plans again is enough fo rme to get them tied up!… don’t worry about silly old us..waiting here with baited breath.. we all knew you were either feeding or trying to sleep!! You are doing a fantastic job xoxo
18th July 2006 at 10:48 pm
Hi Claire,
Very happy for you and your family. I am sure that reader’s comment was simply because they missed you. If not, it’s your blog, your time. You do what you want.
We’re just so lucky that you let us share in a small part of your life.
18th July 2006 at 10:51 pm
ok, my baby was 1 month on the second of july & i have a 2 year old. my house is a shambles, the bills are late, the laundry is in mountains waiting to be folded… i couldn’t even think of blogging or finishing or starting a million and 1 things – don’t worry about posting/blogging! happy to hear from you when you can!!! so glad you’re all happy and healthy!!!
18th July 2006 at 11:12 pm
I am glad to see another post – I know that you have been busy with the new little one and am also glad to hear that things are going well for you. I know that I am probably going to repeat what other commenters have already said, but it is a shame that that email came across as it did – sometimes even a mundane inquiry can come across as sharp or sarcastic in email. For whatever that person meant, I am glad to see a new post, to hear that all is well, and to keep checking back in on you every once in a while, for I know how when you are swamped and tired and busy the last thing you need to be worried about (or getting emails on) is complaints on your blog! Update when you can!
18th July 2006 at 11:25 pm
What?? Abandoned? ANY mother KNOWS what you have been up to! Plenty! Just keep on doing what is most important at this moment. We understand perfectly.
18th July 2006 at 11:26 pm
I’m so glad to hear things are going smoothly (or as smoothly as things can go with a new baby and a toddler)! Hooray for Amelia for being a big girl and a good big sister!! Try to relax and enjoy this time…an extra pile of mags and an extra basket of laundry will be fine to sit a little while longer . Those things don’t change, but those sweet girls do; especially when you’re not looking. Congratulations again.
18th July 2006 at 11:34 pm
As a mother, I’d be really suprised if you were keeping up this site. It’s very obvious (to me) that this site is a much more personal space, which takes a lot of time and effort (I think). Anyway, keep doing what you’re doing. It’s all good.
19th July 2006 at 12:25 am
I was actually thinking how nice it must be for you to finally get that blog holiday you were talking about months ago! Just do whatever you need to do and we will be here when your ready! Glad to hear everything is going well!
19th July 2006 at 12:44 am
congrats claire. make sure you enjoy every single minute that lily is this tiny. we’ll still be here when you have the energy – so don’t you worry about those emailers.
*grrr* to them i say, *grrr*.
19th July 2006 at 12:52 am
I never felt you abandoned Loobylu. Always knew you were doing the good mothering bit. So glad to hear things are going well. Happy wishes to you and your family.
19th July 2006 at 1:50 am
Well, I have missed you….and appreciate that you spent precious “free time” to fill us (your readers)in on how things are going. I think that is most likely what the person who made the hurtful comment really meant….she just misses you too. My sons are in their late 20′s now….so by experience I can empathize….I think you are doing fabulously well….so take care….Take time for yourself…You deserve it.
Fondly,
Susan from the West Coast…USA
19th July 2006 at 2:21 am
Fignuts to anyone giving you a hard time. Happy to hear that everyone is happy and healthy.
19th July 2006 at 2:43 am
Baby trumps blog, in any situation. I’m glad you made the decisions you did.
19th July 2006 at 3:02 am
Clare,
So glad you are back! You were greatly missed. And anyone who gave you grief for taking time from YOUR blog to care for YOUR family is absolutely nuts.
We’re all cheering for you and I’m glad to hear you are feeling well.
19th July 2006 at 3:10 am
though we miss you,
your life has been bettered by two.
don’t mind the silly din of one blue reader, your kind is rare and wonder-full-er!
19th July 2006 at 3:53 am
Happy to see your posting today! Anyone who doesn’t understand how busy you’ve been just hasn’t had children yet. Or more than one. The baby is lovely and your family sounds like you are all enjoying being an expanding group!
19th July 2006 at 4:13 am
Lovely to see you back again. Have missed your blog but COMPLETELY understand the strains and tirednesses (not a real word, oh well) of being a new mum. Just enjoy yourself and we will wait patiently for you to post again. Your children are much more important than a bunch of blogaholics,
Mia
19th July 2006 at 4:20 am
So glad you are back. I missed you. I am so glad that things are going well in your household. I had no doubts. Enjoy them. They grow soooo fast!
19th July 2006 at 4:37 am
Keep smiling!
19th July 2006 at 5:11 am
Oh, yhey are both such sweet girls. So much joy, adjustmetns and of course, the exhaustion. Kudos to Big-P for doing his part. And Many Many good thoughts and smiles to you and your expanded family.
19th July 2006 at 5:23 am
I figured you were busy with the baby, and fully expected LoobyLu to go on hold for a while! Focus on your family We’ll still be here
19th July 2006 at 5:58 am
oh I am so happy all is well!
who ever wrote such a silly email must live in a cave- life happens !
you’ve got lots on your plate – don’t ever worry about us- we are ( I am ) so happy for you!
19th July 2006 at 6:13 am
Oh, for goodness’ sake. You don’t BELONG to us! We have no right to expect anything from you. Smooch that baby and check in every once in a while if you feel like it. I was SO glad to read about the second-time-around not being so hard. I have been fearing it…and we’re not even pregnant with number two!
19th July 2006 at 9:07 am
Claire, Lily is so gorgeous. I am so happy for you that you are having such a great time with your new bub and Amelia. You are a great mum, you have your priorities in the right place. We will still be here when you have have the urge to blog again.
June
19th July 2006 at 9:27 am
Ahhhh, it is so nice to read a post whenever you have the time to get one up.
I’m so jealous of Lily’s every three hour feedings – my almost one month old (the 21st!) eats every one and a half to two hours! He’s going to be huge!
19th July 2006 at 9:35 am
Oh my goodness, that wasn’t very nice of that person to send an e-mail like that. I for one, figured you were very very busy with your new little one. I’m sure most of your readers thought that too.
Take care.
K
19th July 2006 at 9:54 am
Don’t worry what other people think. A new baby is all encompassing. And she is darling.
19th July 2006 at 10:05 am
I too just assumed you were having a lovely babymoon. I have been so besotted by my second (just two weeks older than Lily) that I would gladly ignore the rest of the world just to be with her. You’re right, the adapting has been done, but it is very difficult time-wise, taking care of a baby and another child. I have kept up blogging, but only because it’s one of the things I *can* do while feeding my daughter – I perch my laptop beside me, and I type one-handed, while she dozes off on the breast.
Anyway, I’m loving Kiddley, and I think it’s incredible you got all those posts acheived while you were still pregnant!
19th July 2006 at 10:08 am
Glad to see things are going well and much better than you expected. Don’t worry about those that say you’ve neglected Lobbylu. I’m surprised that you’ve had the time to post anything at all. I was a mess for several months after my first and second baby! Keep up the good work and post some pictures when you have a chance.
Congrats again on your beautiful family!
19th July 2006 at 10:12 am
i’d be worried if you were on your blog all the time rather than being with your new baby and Amelia during this special time. You rock!
19th July 2006 at 11:28 am
Tasks by telekinesis – mmmm! Look forward to a Kiddley article on that. It’s required in this household where there are 2 schoolkids, a 3 year old, and baby who, like Lily, loves to be cuddled ALL OF THE TIME. 7 years of television sounds quite moderate – well done!
19th July 2006 at 12:09 pm
I for one assumed that it was the brand spanking new baby keeping you away. I’m glad things are running more smoothly this time around, and am looking forward to things settling down and you have time to share your stories with us more regularly once again. But the task of motherhood is certainly more important, as I’m sure most of your readers understand.
19th July 2006 at 12:19 pm
I realize that I said “7 years of television”! I meant to write 7 HOURS. Baby on breast, typing one-handed, sleep deprivation contributed to my slipup.
19th July 2006 at 12:42 pm
Hi, this is my first time reading your blog and I have to say, 1. What a beautiful baby! 2. I have an Amelia, too, born 10/29/03. 3. I love your illustrations! They remind me of 1930s-era children’s books with a modern twist. 4. If I ever write a children’s book I will ask you to illustrate it.
5. You enjoy those precious girls and don’t give this blog another thought!
6. To the grumpy blog lurker: Get a life!
19th July 2006 at 12:45 pm
I’d like to add to the chorus — thank you for posting, because you brighten up the internet, but nobody has the right to criticise you. Also — I think Kiddley is a wonderful project and you deserve every success with it.
19th July 2006 at 1:27 pm
Good to see you back !
I think it would have been easy for ( most ? ) people to see that you were simply busy with your beautiful new family.
There are some funny people about though …
19th July 2006 at 2:06 pm
Remember when blogging was fun?
I am often asked how I do it (balancing a creative life with being a mother) and my answer is simple – not very well.
19th July 2006 at 2:33 pm
I haven’t got a child yet but for me Kiddley is not your 2nd blog, but an extension of Loobylu. And I read every single post of Kiddley with the same joy, interest and amazement as if I was reading Loobylu. It’s clever, it’s creative, it’s sweet and full of your beautiful illustrations. You don’t need to be a mum to understand how busy you are these days and how the priorities have changed in your life. Everyone knows and understand that perfectly well. Those who doesn’t are probably the ones you shouldn’t waste any of your precious time with. It’s your life, your time, your blogs, your business. And you are great looking after all that just the way you do! Enjoy your lovely family.
19th July 2006 at 3:12 pm
Oh no that’s terrible! I never for a minute wondered where you were and had guessed the Kiddley articles were ready to go
Since when did a blog become someone elses right? We’re lucky Loobylu exists at all…it’s not like we’re paying you a subscription!! Anyway there’s always the archives to dig around in while we wait for you to get a breather from your two beautiful girls Enjoy the ‘break’ and enjoy your baby Don’t feel pressured by your audience! That makes blogging no fun!
19th July 2006 at 3:22 pm
Hooray Claire! Nice to see you again! There must be SOMETHING about June bugs needing 24 hour cuddle service because this one wants it too- she’s in my lap right now actually. Look forward to hearing from you soon and I hope all stays well. ^_^
19th July 2006 at 4:19 pm
Lordy, why would anyone expect the parent of a newborn to be blogging (or even turning on the computer) with any regularity?! So happy to hear that everything is going well, though! Take care, xo.
19th July 2006 at 6:30 pm
Wow… You are amazing to have had the time to prepare the Kiddley stuff when you were so pregnant let alone update Loobylu in that sleep deprived first month. Our cherub turns 6 months next week and I still don’t always get to the shower before lunch time so please know we’ll take whatever updates you can manage
19th July 2006 at 7:40 pm
I did not feel abandoned for a minute. I checked the site, read the question (“wanna see….”) and answered with my own awwww everytime. Great pic, I can almost smell that baby smell. You sound like you’re doing really well. Enjoy these precious days.
19th July 2006 at 9:38 pm
Congratulations on your babymoon. More than one child is different + easier + harder all at once, but never so intimidating as becoming a parent for the first time. Don’t let the odd unsupportive comment pressue you into updating Loobylu, your blog is wonderful but we’ll all wait and your children won’t!
19th July 2006 at 10:12 pm
My Lily turns three this year. THREE! And her little sister is already ONE! Time does go by so quickly. And don’t fret about some dumb people… be a mom, take care of your kids, and enjoy every moment. Those of us who enjoy reading your blog will continue to enjoy it when you do find the time to update.
19th July 2006 at 11:51 pm
Claire, you go ahead and be the mom your kids need. I am glad you are not taking the time to update your blog, you have very important things to do right now (blogging can wait). Devoted fans like me will be here when you have more balanced days and nights. xo
20th July 2006 at 12:40 am
So glad you and the baby are doing good, I always found the first 6 weeks the hardest and most exhausting. I enjoy reading both your blogs. I’m surprised you have been able to post at all. Enjoy your time with your new baby, and don’t worry what people say.
20th July 2006 at 1:29 am
My dear Mother always had this advise when someone’s ill-timed words struck a nerve with me…”little people deserve little time.”
Thanks for your post & looking forward to pics when time avails!
Be well!
20th July 2006 at 3:51 am
congratulations claire, thanks for checking on us. you are my hero. nevermind any negativity, the majority of your readers and friends are positive about the changes going on in your life.
you’re the best!
20th July 2006 at 4:16 am
COUGH! In true American form (oh dear), I am going to throw etiquette to the wind and say, “What a jackass!” to whomever felt it would be appropriate to complain about lack of blogging during the first month post-partum (c-section no less, is that correct?). I barely brushed my teeth that month, let alone talk to the Internet. Much love to the entire Loobylu family!! Megin
20th July 2006 at 8:20 am
Hell I think congratulations are due for the effort of editing and posting such an adorable photo at all!
20th July 2006 at 9:17 am
Of course I admit I miss the Loobylu posts, but…it’s for the best reason in the world! Who could possibly hold that against you?
For some reason, those newborns think the world revolves around them…lol! So go ahead and revolve until you’re dizzy! (I’m sooooo glad things are going well!) Don’t worry about us…we’ll still be here!
20th July 2006 at 10:48 am
Don’t let that message get you down! I have a two year old and 8 month old at home, and I was only thinking yesterday that I’ve got my groove on. Even though you’ve got experience, two is tougher than one. Twice as many requests for Mommy’s time!! They’re the ones who should get your attention…we’re all adults here. We can wait. Congrats again!
20th July 2006 at 11:21 am
Dear Miss Claire, Don’t you ,Not for one second feel any pressure from anyone..This is But a BLOG..those precious Gifts you have inarms and at your feet are Treasures..you will never walk this time agian with your girls..Never..So Abandone a Blog if you must to Make a Life of Joy with your family
20th July 2006 at 1:42 pm
Don’t worry about not updating, you have your priorities correct! You just need to focus on Lily and family, we are all very patient about waiting! I am glad to hear all is going so well for you.
20th July 2006 at 3:45 pm
Absolutely not! you take as long as you need, as you are already aware time flies with two so enjoy every second – blogging can wait, we don’t mind at all!!
20th July 2006 at 4:17 pm
I checked in to see whether you had updated knowing that you are a Super Woman. Anyone who does anything other than feed, wash, eat, sleep in the first 6 weeks of a baby’s life is a hero. I’m so glad to hear that your feelings of wanting to escape have not recurred (yet!) but I found that so much, indeed almost everything, is easier and more enjoyable the second time around. I hope you find the same.
20th July 2006 at 8:29 pm
Hi
I have been admiring and inspired by your blog for a while now (ever since that AGE article years ago!)
I am due to have my second bubby any day now – Iike you I juggle lots of projects and activities as well as my own art making – this activity despite bubbies and boobs is so important to make for a happy and fulfilled mummy
thank you
20th July 2006 at 8:38 pm
Oh welcome back. I’m thrilled to read your new post but TOTALLY understand your need to focus on your family. Boo Hoo to silly emailers. Shame on them. Glad to hear things are settling into some sort of routine. Welcome done Mum!
20th July 2006 at 9:28 pm
Family and loved ones must always come first. Pleased to know you are all well.
Welcome back ( at your own pace and inclination, of course).
21st July 2006 at 1:56 am
We sure understand you….you’ve been a great mom. I’m glad to see you back, so don’t worry.*~*
xox
Marjorie Ann
21st July 2006 at 4:20 am
I’m happy to see a new post but was sad it came due to a grumpy gus. All the same, it’s wonderful to hear things are going along well. I’ve enjoyed seeing little Lily’s face everytime I checked in anyway! Hugs to you and your fam…
21st July 2006 at 4:54 am
Don’t worry about the negativity Claire – just do your thing. We love it.
21st July 2006 at 10:38 am
I never cease to be amazed at how we tend to judge and criticise before we love and help each other, as mothers we should be doing the latter and supporting each other but somehow we often find it easier to find fault, I am pleased that all other commens are from caring and loving people who know that “mum” is the hardest job description out there, but also thankfully the most rewarding:)
21st July 2006 at 3:14 pm
Hi Claire,
To be completely honest, I haven’t been checking your blog lately as I just assumed that you were busy with your little one(s)- I was (pleasantly) suprised to see you back blogging so soon. Please don’t feel under pressure- most of us understand very well how important and exhausting this first month is, even if we haven’t experienced it first hand.
21st July 2006 at 5:06 pm
Ahh, even I was thinking same that Loobylu is kept aside.
You were quite planned, arranged the articles for whole month for your new website.
Hope Little Lily is doing fine and Amelia is smiling as always.
Take care.
21st July 2006 at 11:20 pm
ditto to the above of course- I still have you on my dailys and every day the little squashy baby face reminded me what you were doing! Have you ever come across a hug-a-bub? (would post website but that might be naughty, it’s easy enough to find) They’re stretchy and snug and keep bub nice and close (not dangling) I must confess I have a little sling addiction (aquired AFTER stuffing up my back with my first born)
21st July 2006 at 11:35 pm
of course we knew you were busy! you just had a baby!
even though i checked daily, i knew you had other things more important to do.
it certainly does get easier with more children! i’m happy this time is a little better for you.
22nd July 2006 at 12:37 am
welcome back! glad to hear that all is well, I checked in now and again but I can’t imagine why people think it is ok to critise ANYTHING anyone does or doesn’t do on their blog! you post when you feel like it.
22nd July 2006 at 1:03 am
I just have to chime in too and say poo on anyone giving you grief!
Congrats again and im so happy everything is going well!!
22nd July 2006 at 11:12 pm
NO hurt feelings here. I know where you are at and it’s only a season. Get your rest so you are full force for loobylu in the coming season!
23rd July 2006 at 8:05 am
Oh good grief. Obviously that person has never had a baby. And definitely not 2. You take as much time as you want with your family and as little as you want with your blogs! But glad to know your transition is going so well.
23rd July 2006 at 5:53 pm
Hi Clare,
Oh little Lily is an Angel!
Perhaps a little graphic reading
“IF IM NOT POSTING_IM LIVING MY LIFE!”
Continue your love bubble with no pressure from here. ANyone who has been a mommy unnderstands there are not close to enough hours in the day of mothering a newborn to even think a conitnuous thought.
Namaste,
MB
24th July 2006 at 9:45 am
Oh my goodness Claire – we love hearing from you but couldn’t understand MORE if you need some baby-time. In fact, that’s probably the only time you’re getting at all with no choice in the matter! Be happy being Mum – these must be tricky days and when you can’t post, we will all heave a little sigh and send good wishes your way and to those beautiful girls of yours. Kate x
24th July 2006 at 3:38 pm
I totally agree with everyone else Claire – just do what you need to do! Nothing is the same with little babes and you need to do the right thing by you So glad to hear you’re enjoying the babyhood more this time around too.
25th July 2006 at 5:12 am
we are happy
to have you
whenever you
have time!
being
a mommy
is far
more important
than blogging…
it’s amazing
to me
how demanding
blog-readers
can be sometimes…
i hope it
doesn’t
stress you out.
take care
of yourself
and your
little ones-
this time
is so
wonderful
and
precious!
18th July 2006 at 12:26 pm
Well, I missed reading your blog but obviously had a fairly good idea of what was keeping you away! Glad to hear you are doing so well – good luck with the feeding, sleeping, nappies! Congratulations on 1 month!